Cyberbullying

Classes in the big universities have just started. This means that bullies and mean girls are once again around or inside the campus. They do the nasty activities in person, and in recent years, the digital advancement or the cyber world has given them a new platform. Now they’re bullies in the real-world and online. The consequences are the same. Name-calling, labeling, and threatening, whether in person or through FACEBOOK, TUMBLR, TWEETER, internet chat, emails, text messages, or other digital connections and transmissions, as well as through social media, have the same serious consequences to the bullied kid or teen.

What is cyberbullying?

This is a modern type of bullying. The bully uses technology to harass, threaten, embarrass, or target another person. It occurs among young people. When an adult is involved, it may be considered as cyber-harassment or cyberstalking. Sometimes cyberbullying can be naïve or unintentional. However, one person’s joke could be another’s hurtful insult. Repeated pattern of emails, texts, and online posts is rarely accidental and may constitute cyberbullying.

Signs of cyberbullying

Sometimes cyberbullying is easy to spot. If your child shows you a text, tweet, or email that is harsh or mean, you may be able to detect the bully in the midst. Studies have shown that only a few of cyberbullying victims come out in the open to speak openly about their problems. Signs of cyberbullying include:

Being emotionally upset during or after using the internet or the phone.

Being secretive or protective about one’s digital life.

Withdrawal from family members, friends, and activities.

Avoiding school or group gatherings.

Slipping grades and “acting out” in anger at home.

Changes in mood, behavior, sleep, or appetite.

Wanting to stop using the computer or cellphone.

Being nervous or jumpy when getting an instant message, text, or email.

Avoiding discussions about computer or cellphone activities.

What parents can do

When you’re pretty sure that your child is a victim of cyberbullying, offer comfort and support. Talk about your experiences about any bullying in school to make him feel that you can identify to his problem. Let him realize that it’s not his fault. Electronically block the bully. Block his emails and text messages to your child. Limit your child’s access to technology. Know your kids online world. Learn about ways to keep your kids safe online.